The person who said "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" was, obviously, not friends with the one who said "out of sight, out of mind." Or they were friends, and one had a stronger like than the other. Absence does not make my heart fonder. Absence makes me bad at staying in contact, therefore forgetful and unfonder. Unfonder is a new word, use it, love it. I'm more keen on the whole "out of sight" thing, but knowing full well as a woman, nothing is out of mind, and it will never be because I constantly think about the same thing over and over again. Fudge.
I know I just rambled for a whole paragraph, whatever.
Also, I've decided I need to make more/new friends (but keep the old -- thank you, girlscouts) so that's what I'll do. Eventually. When I learn how. I joined meetup.com, but Im not sure I have to balls to actually go to any events. Words of encouragement are encouraged. Please and thank you.